On
Tuesday we met up with Lev, Stan, and now a new friend from India to teach
English. We started into traveling and vacation terms, now that summer’s in
full swing. I begin listing vocab on the board….."ticket,” “itinerary,”
“portal,” “TSA,” and then “flight attendant.”
They
looked a bit puzzled when I put that last one up, so I began explaining…..”a
person who works on an airplane, helps passengers, brings you snacks,
etc…..also called a stewardess…..”
Lev
then leans back with a smile, “Ooooooohhhhh……YES. I understand.”
Perfect. So I run the drill:
“How would you put that word in a sentence?”
Without
hesitating, he starts, “A flight attendant…is also called a stewardess, and
is VERY beautiful, and young, and attractive,
and usually has long beautiful hair, and brings you
everything you need.” He then goes on with a wink, “Maybe you work as
our flight attendant after you’re a missionary??”
Ummmmmmmmmm……..NO.
Ain’t that type...
MOVING.
ON.
“’Pilot’…..next
word is ‘PILOT’……” hahaha! Gotta love it. There’s never a
dull moment when teaching two 60-year olds English as a second language:)
lol
Thursday,
we went to Feed My Starving Children as a Zone and ……OH MY GOSH……funnest
service project e.v.e.r.!!! We TORE up that place (between hearing Mumford and Sons
sing “I will wait, I will wait for you!” over the boombox speakers with
an accompanying elder of the group shouting,
“Oh, NO SHE WON’T!”
Couldn’t.
Stop. Laughing! lol! Girls….he’s got a point:) Anyways……by the end, we’d packed over 40 boxes of meals at ONE
station, and in total packaged enough meals to feed over 115 kids for a
YEAR!!! Woop woop!!!
#TeamBuffaloGroveZone #repthehood #ldsswag
#TeamBuffaloGroveZone #repthehood #ldsswag
Wednesday,
we showed up to district meeting, and after we were finished, headed to the
baptism closet to find a jumpsuit for Bethany’s baptism (!!!!!). We opened the
closed only to find that the O.N.L.Y. sizes available were XX-XXXX
Large (yea, didn’t even know they made suits that big….things you
learn as a missionary;) or a Youth Medium.
That’s
not gonna cut it for a slim 5 foot 8 young woman wanting to get baptized.
So
we keep scouring the closet, digging through pile after pile of white clothing
and eventually recruiting the help of the elders. EHHHH….not
the smartest move.
Convo
that followed:
Elder
P--, pulling out a white XXX jump suit: “WAY too big. It looks like something
you’d wear to clean a porter potty.”
Elder
G--, lifting up a white dress, trying to figure out the wide collar: “Oh!
It’s a scarf! Oh, she’ll love that!”
Elder
P--, finding another dress with an oversized scoop drape collar, and mistaking
it for a hood:
“Whoa….that’s
like KKK status.”
Me,
holding up a thin, lacey, and slightly yellowed dress: “That looks like
something your grandma would die in.”
Sister
Bishop, finding a Youth Large, and holding it up to herself: “It could
just ride right below her knee. That’s not too weird,
right?”
F.A.I.L.
After
30 minutes of no luck, we finally decided to take what we had (Shrek-sized
jumpsuits, and century-old nightgowns) to give Bethany “options” (riiiiiiiight).
Our wardrobe unveiling that night at her house was C.L.A.S.S.Y. ……like
red carpet status.
Luckily,
we have b.o.m.b. Zone Leaders who were champs and found us
an adult small jumpsuit at their
chapel in Gurnee, and it fit PERFECTLY.
Saved
by grace, after all we could do;) lol
Annnnnnddddd…..speaking
of BAPTISMS……BETHANY IS OFFICALLY A MEMBER OF THE
CHURCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!
It
was one of the most beautiful and happy days of my
mission!!! I’ve loved every minute I’ve had to spend
teaching Bethany (though we really didn’t teach her much…she kinda knew it all
already since she’s been studying up on it for over a year)!!!
I’ve grown SO close to that girl, I love her!
I’ve made a new bestie, and it’s i.n.c.r.e.d.i.b.l.e. knowing that I got
to play a small part in her conversion!!!
[OK…if
you just skipped over that last paragraph…..start reading HERE:]
REWIND……
Story
time:
So
2 days before I opened my mission call (yea, as it was sitting on the kitchen
counter…..longest. two. days. of. MY. L.I.F.E.), I was praying late one
night……stressing over the mission, wondering what my companions would be like,
how many people I'd be able to teach, what my mission president would be like,
if I'd love my areas, see people get baptized, have fun, be free of
hardships.....ya know, the uge that pre-mi’s worry about....and then....
I
had to STOP.
I
paused and realized how selfish I was being. My prayers were all about ME......MY
wants, MY desires, MY life, MY fears, ME...ME...ME. In that moment when I
stopped, took a step back, and re-evaluated what I was saying, the spirit spoke
clearly to my mind,
"Anna......someone TONIGHT is
praying that YOU will bring them the gospel!"
I bawled. Straight up, knelt
there and cried for over a half hour. I was completely struck by
the power of those words, and their accompanying meaning.
This
mission isn't about ME. None of it. I realized in that moment
that I wasn't going out here for ME. I wasn't sacrificing for ME,
leaving home for ME, or giving up all I loved for ME. It was for that
person...that ONE that needed ME.
Well
guess what???
I FOUND HER!!!!!!!!!!!!
One
year ago, Bethany was praying for sister missionaries to come. She knew that
she wanted the gospel in her life, and even wanted to meet with the
missionaries, but she wanted--needed--SISTERS.
One
year ago, I was praying for me.......but was told......ANOTHER was
praying for me....to come.
All
along our way, teaching Bethany, I wondered if she was the one that had been
praying for me to come. I wasn't sure, though it seemed possible. In fact, I
didn't know for sure until, standing at the top of those font steps, I
watched as Bethany came up out of that water, smiling and literally
glowing! It hit me so hard,
"SISTER PARKER, YOU FOUND
HER!!! YOU FOUND HER!!!"
There
is NOTHING like that feeling in the ENTIRE world!!!!! To
know that you—through God’s help—did it! You found the one who needed you, who
prayed for you to come!!! I couldn’t contain my happiness!!!! I’ve never
felt happier in MY LIFE!!!!
That
night, we went over to Bethany’s to visit her and to practice for a choir
number we and the young women were invited to sing in Sacrament Meeting the
following day. The three of us sat there together, basking in the joy and
happiness of the day as we began singing “Come Unto Christ.”
[BTW,
if you don’t know this song…..go listen to it HERE….it’s b.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l.]
We
sat around that table, as rain came down softly outside and sang, “Come unto
Christ, come unto Him. And by His grace be made, holy again. He’s calling
your name. He’s waiting for you, with arms open wide. Come unto Christ!”
I
wouldn’t have traded that moment--singing those words and looking into
Bethany’s eyes--for the WORLD!!! I’ve never felt the spirit stronger!
I broke down when we were finished with the song and told Bethany about my
experience praying before the mission. All I could say to her at the end was,
“YOU
make it ALL WORTH IT!!!!”
The
heartache, the homesickness, the fatigue, the failure, the rejection, the
sacrifice, the bitterness, the pain, the loneliness, the hardship……it is ALL
WORTH IT!!!
Missions are worth it. They’re hard, but they.
are. worth. it!!!! There are “one’s” that are out there waiting for you to
reach out to them, to find them, to help them, and to bless their lives
eternally. Whether you’re a full-time missionary or a member missionary…..they
are out there! They’re waiting for YOU!!!
And
you’re perhaps the ONLY one who can find and help them! Don’t wait! They
need you NOW!!!!
IT IS ALL WORTH IT!!!!
Onward
and Upward,
Sister
Anna Parker